Playlist.

I bet we all have them somewhere for something, I've made several sexual themed ones before... but I've never actually USED one of them. Well... one of my sexy CD's has been in the car when I nearly had sex in an airport parking lot... but otherwise, nope.

So I decided that was silly. Especially as I was sitting around the other night with my thesis methods draft in progress open in front of me... and clearly NOT thinking about it. I was thinking about how I should use kink.com porn as my rewards for getting thesis milestones met. :D So far, it's a pretty nice little reward system. I finally have been able to work, without rewards, so because I don't NEED them to get my work done I felt they would be nice icing on the cake. And they are. Wow, so I'm already way off topic already, let's go back. While my thesis was open I had this odd realization about my past sexual encounters... and finally clicked to just what it is that takes sex from good to mind-blowing for me. Aural stimulation.

When someone says something in my ear that's sexual I swear it's like it gets live wired directly to my clitoris. I have never made this connection before, probably because when it happens I'm a fucking puddle mentally and physically. E did this CONSTANTLY. It's probably why he's the one I nearly had sex with in a bar stairwell. Jeeeez his voice was sexy too, I can fall for a voice. I've always known that, but never took it that step farther and made the sex connection. K also used his to advantage fairly regularly, and that's when I'd end up wrapped around his finger. I think it's also why I had long-distance things with both of them. They hooked me through the phone with little to no effort, just a sexy voice that knew how to growl and one of them had a helluva talent for phone sex. SP does this occasionally but not all that often, and that's what finally tipped me off about this. When he does - it's fucking insanely good. When he doesn't, it's ok, but doesn't blow my mind. I see much more mind blowing in my future now that I know....

Wouldn't life be easier if it was fast and simple to understand just what it is that does it for you? But NO I have to think about it, analyze it, figure out what goes on when my brain is mush. Ridiculous. ;)

Ok, so that was a little off topic too, I also realized that for me while I like club beats and such what really gets me off are the words to songs and a bit of a hard rock edge. So here's a bit of my sexual playlist. Now that I have an ipod alarm clock I see it getting a lot more use, in fact I don't think I'll be playing with myself without it anymore either.

Jose Nunez: Bilingual (Dirty Mix) -holy shit if you've never heard it go find it now-
Tool: Sober
NIN: Closer
Garbage: #1 Crush
Maroon 5: Harder to Breathe
Poe: Hey Pretty (I like both versions)
Pink ft. Peaches: Oh My God
Britney Spears: I'm a Slave For You (This one hasn't actually been in the list for a bit because I haven't wanted to think about her on accident in the moment, haha. Poor crazy Brit.)
The Pussycat Dolls: Buttons (I actually have found that a lot of guys like this song a lot even if they won't admit it out loud. Plus it's good to dance to if you want to add a bit of other grinding r a striptease into whatever this list is accompanying.)
50 Cent ft. Olivea: Candy Shop
N.E.R.D.: Lapdance

Some possible later additions that I like and make me think sex but I haven't integrated yet:
Anything by Girl Talk (dirty pumping remixes of anything and everything)
Saving Abel: Addicted
Theory of a Deadman: Bad Girlfriend
Kanye West: Addiction
Goldfrapp: Ooh La La

"One thing with all of these tracks is that laptop speakers will really not do them justice. They're all about bass, low frequency sounds that you feel as well as hear, and tinny laptop speakers can never recreate those. So plug in some proper speakers, turn up the volume and bass, and enjoy the selection..." - Jake of Facts and Friction I highly reccomend reading his posts on this topic. :)